Record the moments. Let the pattern emerge.
Relavara turns individual interactions into a history you can review over time. You record what happened, add context, reflect on both sides, and come back later to see what repeats.
Add
Create the relationship you want to track.
Record
Capture interactions while they are still clear.
Build
Let your history grow over time.
Review
Look back for repetition, change, and context.
Start with the relationship.
Add the person you want to understand more clearly and choose the context that best describes the relationship.
Record the interaction, not the verdict.
When something happens, record the event itself before trying to decide what the entire relationship means.
Relavara gives you room to capture what happened, how it felt, the context, and the behaviors you noticed.
Look through three lenses.
Relavara is designed to create a more complete record than simply logging what the other person did.
Their behavior
What did the other person say, do, avoid, repair, repeat, or support?
My part
How did you respond? What did you need? What boundary, reaction, or choice was yours?
Safety
If a behavior raises a safety concern, Relavara keeps that information separate from ordinary conflict.
Give the history time to build.
Relavara becomes more useful as you create a record over time.
A single interaction may be important, but repeated entries give you something different: context.
Look back with more perspective.
Once you have enough history, Relavara helps you revisit the relationship across time instead of relying only on the most recent interaction.
Premium adds deeper views such as trends, Pattern Evidence, weekly review, timelines, repair tracking, and reflection trends.
A moment and a pattern are not the same thing.
Relavara helps you separate what happened once from what keeps happening.
Start with one relationship and one honest record.
Free Basic gives you enough to begin tracking, reflecting, and seeing whether the process is useful for you.