Tools for the moment, the pattern, and everything in between.
Relavara combines interaction tracking, self-reflection, pattern review, education, media, and privacy-minded tools in one place.
Build the record.
Start with the basics: who the relationship is with, what happened, what behaviors you noticed, and what context surrounded the interaction.
Relationship Profiles
Create profiles for the relationships you want to track, including dating, partners, family, friendships, and parent-child relationships.
Interaction Logs
Record individual moments, conversations, conflicts, supportive interactions, and other events while they are still clear.
Behavior Tracking
Mark supportive, difficult, repeated, or concerning behaviors without turning them into diagnoses.
Relationship Stage
Keep context around where the relationship is, from early talking stages to long-term relationships.
Safety Tracking
Safety-related behaviors stay separate from ordinary relationship conflict so they remain visible in the record.
Edit as Needed
Revisit and update entries when you remember additional context or need to correct something you recorded.
Look at more than one side.
Relavara is not built around simply cataloging what another person did. It also gives you room to look at your own responses, boundaries, needs, and changes over time.
My Part
Reflect on your reaction, choices, boundaries, needs, and contribution to an interaction.
Journal
Keep longer private reflections separate from individual interaction logs.
Reflection Check-ins
Step back periodically and record how the relationship feels from a wider perspective.
Reality Check
Explore behavior-focused education around communication, boundaries, repair, and relationship patterns.
Goals
Set personal or relationship-focused goals and revisit them over time.
Repair Tracking
Record whether difficult moments are followed by accountability, repair, follow-through, or repeated breakdown.
You do not have to reflect while you are still flooded.
Pause & Breathe gives you a short calm-moment option before you journal, review a pattern, or continue logging.
Turn a history into something reviewable.
Once enough history exists, Relavara helps you look across time rather than relying only on the most recent interaction.
Pattern Overview
See a broad summary of the patterns reflected in your recorded history.
Advanced Insights
Premium expands the depth of your relationship review with more detailed pattern views.
Trend Graphs
View changes across time instead of comparing entries manually.
Pattern Evidence
Review the entries behind a pattern so you can see what contributed to the summary.
Weekly Review
Look back across the week for repetition, progress, repair, and difficult cycles.
Reflection Trends
Compare your own reflections across time alongside the interaction history.
Keep the bigger story together.
Patterns often make more sense when you can see the sequence of events, attempts at repair, personal goals, and repeated themes in one place.
Some moments need more than text.
Premium includes a Gallery for relationship-specific media, including screenshots, photos, selfies, and supported audio.
Privacy-minded tools are built into the experience.
The full privacy details belong on the Privacy page, but these are the controls you can use inside Relavara.
PIN Lock
Helps prevent casual access to the Relavara interface.
Quick Exit
Switch quickly to a neutral Notes screen.
Backups
Export supported relationship data and restore it later.
Accessibility Preferences
Adjust text size and reduce motion to make the interface more comfortable.
Make the space feel like yours.
Free Basic includes Candlelight and Lavender. Premium unlocks all eight themes.
See exactly what comes with each version.
Free Basic includes the core Relavara experience. Premium includes everything in Free Basic and unlocks the complete toolkit for deeper, longer-term tracking.
No card required. No subscription. Start with one relationship and the core tools for tracking and reflection.
Track one relationship in your personal record.
Record up to 10 of your own interactions.
Add context such as talking, dating, partner, family, friend, or parent-child.
Record supportive, difficult, repeated, and safety-related behaviors.
Keep the record balanced while treating safety separately.
Revisit and correct your relationship and interaction records.
Review a simplified insight view based on the history you record.
See a broad summary of patterns reflected in your entries.
Keep longer private reflections separate from individual logs.
Explore behavior-focused education around communication, boundaries, repair, and patterns.
Learn how the app works and how to use the tracking process.
Use the Calm Moment breathing and grounding tool before continuing.
Add a layer of protection against casual access to the app interface.
Switch quickly to a neutral Notes screen.
Export supported app data and import a compatible backup later.
Access safety information without upgrading to Premium.
Explore how Relavara works before building your own history.
Your relationship records are designed to remain in browser storage on the device you use.
Install Relavara on supported devices and browsers.
Candlelight and Lavender.
One-time purchase. No required subscription. Includes everything in Free Basic plus the full Relavara feature set.
Keep all core tracking, reflection, education, privacy, and safety tools.
Track multiple personal relationships.
Build longer histories without the Free Basic 10-log limit.
Review deeper views of the patterns reflected in your recorded history.
See how tracked behaviors and reflections change across time.
Compare recent interactions, themes, repair, and changes.
Review the entries behind summarized patterns.
Set and revisit personal or relationship-focused goals.
Track apology, accountability, follow-through, and repair over time.
Review important events and interactions in sequence.
Compare how your own reflections change across time.
Review each relationship on its own rather than blending histories together.
Keep relationship-specific media alongside your history.
Add visual context from your device.
Capture a personal visual check-in when supported by your device and browser.
Record supported audio directly when browser permissions allow.
Add a supported audio file when direct recording is unavailable or not preferred.
Create summaries for a selected relationship and reporting period.
Choose whether supported notes are included in a printable summary.
Create an encrypted backup protected by a password you choose.
Restore supported data from a compatible Relavara backup.
Monitor supported local browser-storage use from inside the app.
Choose Standard, Large, or Extra Large text.
Reduce interface movement for a calmer experience.
Candlelight, Lavender, Rose, Teal, Navy, Graphite, Forest, and Midnight.
You do not need every feature to begin seeing a pattern.
Start with Free Basic, record a few interactions, and see whether the process helps you look back more clearly.